good bye blue skies.....

love for life....

So much is wrong with the world right now. Money, wars, gas, food and the environment blah blagh blagh. Today I am not going to post about any of those things but instead 100 things that I love. This is my list and no one Else's list. Make your own and enjoy it. I can guess that many of these will be food items as I love to cook and be cooked for. Some will be repeated as I go along, again this is an informal list. I think I love some things that you may also , that is because some loves are universal......

In no particular order ......

Hugs from my sons as I leave the house to go to work.
The 100% trust I get from my dogs as the walk up to me to say hello or a scratch behind the ears.
The softness of a womans kiss.
Fresh cut fries.
The burning sensation of real Coca Cola on the first sip.
Sleeping with the windows open and feeling the night air.
the quiet of the very early morning or late night.
a smoke as I'm in the washroom.
A fresh shave (non rushed) with lather
Coffee ; double cream double sugar
The 10 minutes after I mow the lawn. its a sense of pride of something looking good.
hand washing the car.
fixing something the kids broke. To see how happy they are after I fix it.
A cold beer in the evening.
putting on warm underwear out of the dryer.
a slow snowfall at night - the kind with big fluffy snowflakes
a good scary movie or a well written sci fi movie. (geek)
comic books (mega geek)
Cartoons on adult swim (ultra mega geek)
waking up and knowing you can still sleep for another hour
a thunderstorm
burning leaves/a bonfire
going for a walk
my leather jacket
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grilling for friends
having the kids fall asleep on me as I watch a movie with them.
waking up and having one of my boys sleeping next to me.

A fresh hair cut

Feeling your teeth right after a dentist visit

72 degrees

driving for fun and with out direction

fireworks in the sky

glow sticks

teva sandals

the leaves turning colors

the first frost

Holland Michigan

DA Bears

blue jeans and doc martins

all dogs

and a few cats

popcorn

hawks

nerdy books and movies

fishing

iced tea

a note from a loved one

handyman magazine

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"stumble upon"

popping my spine into place

new car smell

homemade chocolate chip cookies

a belly laugh

quiet time at night

playing poker for cheap stakes

naps

watching old TV (quantum leap and old shows)

black and white movies (Marx brothers)

going to a museum

boxer briefs

an unexpected text message from a friend

Chicago style hot dogs (no raw onions)

going to the pool and just sitting in the water

getting a manicure/pedicure

a rough back massage

clouds

cardinals and blue jays

the smell of old books

new socks

roses

tools (Craftsman work best)

Calvin Klein , One, Be, Obsession , Polo Blue, and yes Old Spice..

curry chicken and rice. (tandoori)

having breakfast as a family

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Monte Blanc pens /fountain pens

stationary

antiques

grave yards

most music from the 1980's

daydreaming about winning the lotto

pizza with friends

watching kids open Christmas presents

the roar of a muscle car

reading Science magazine

the zoo

Thanksgiving day

taking a hot shower until the water runs out (without the kids knocking on the door!!!)

lifting weights and seeing progress

Secretly being smarter than my co workers

the style of a bungalow hosue

brownies (fuggy ones not the cakey ones)

bumble bees (i think they are klutzy like me)

being larger than life

dark beers (if they are done well)

archery

hand guns and antique rifles

plain black t shirts

tattoos

PHO (its a soup)

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knowing 2 languages (I wish I knew more)

flying a kite

a home made hamburger (you can taste the love)

Gyros (again no onion!!!)

going to an ethnic market

the invention known as the internet

midnight

horses

a well made italian beef

ww2 propaganda posters

Bacon (not overly crisp)

meatloaf and gravy

jean jackets

1972 Buick rivera

a sunshower

old rotory phones

salted cashews

air conditioning

acoustic guitar

watching Star Trek and knowing most of the lines

Rum

a basic egg and potato taco

I like making jelly/jams from fresh fruit

country ham

the lakeshore

grilled mushrooms on a steak (without asking!!)

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blue cheese

sun dresses

old buildings (with character)

pineapple

pudding

real coke

watching candels burn

home made ice cream

shrimp cocktails

buffallo wings

leather seats in cars

high heals and nylons

Seattle Wa

my mammas tacos

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I went over by a few , but so what. Read comment and enjoy....... Peace

the cool wind...

The bet was simple; The Cubs win their first series the other three guys
have to shave their heads, The Sox lose we have to shave ours. Well Here I
am with the cool breeze on my head. Shaved down to the scalp. While some
were kind and said "Its a good look", I know better. I look like Uncle
Fester from the Adams family. Its not a bad look, its just a look that is
not me. No wavy black hair, no salt and pepper sides.... I do have to grab
some sunblock to make sure I don't burn the top of my mellon. The color
difference between my scalp and skin was not too bad so it won't take me
too long to get a tan head.
It was 1992 the last time I fully shaved my head. It was odd then having
the wind blow across your head. The funny part is that I spooked my self
in the mirror this morning when I got up. I forgot that I did it.

Anyways the Cubs and Sox play three more this weekend. I do hope the win
this round. As of today I did not bet anything...

Death in the family.

I had to downstate again last weekend. We had a death in the family. The
weather on Sunday did not help. We left in the middle of a pretty brutal
morning storm. We arrived in a few hours and got settled in to the routine
of preparing food. I took the kids to the wake and they did really well
with the coffin and saying goodbye to Uncle Bob. I'm still an outsider to
my wifes family. Not because I'm unlikeable but because they life all over.
Peoria, Atlanta, Indiana and other places. They know of me but most have
only met my in the major family functions. After that we had them over to
the house and fed them all. Country ham and potato salad. It almost seemed
like a country picnic, but the tension was there. We all had an obligation
to do the next day. I did not attend the funeral at all instead I decided
to hang out and play with the kids. After that we just packed up and went
home. It was a lot of driving for me on very short notice. The drive was
long after not spending a night in your own bed.
I often think of my own mortality and wonder what things I want done
(if any). I often joke about doing a Viking funeral and setting a boat a
flame and dropping it in to the lake. In truth I think I'll just be
cremated in simple attire. A plain pine box and wrapped in a white sheet.
Simple as I have lived. No headstone, no fancy box, no big magic show just
friends and family telling stories. I'll provide a bottle of Scotch and you
all tell a story about me. Remember me in life and at least one good thing
I did for you. If I was able to make you smile at least once then my job
was complete. .....

peace.

Quick summer update..

Summer is officially here and the kids are out of school. The entire
neighborhood is crawling with them and my house has become the "koolaide"
house. Its kinda of fun, my front yard is littered with small scooters and
small bicycles.
Last night out of the blue my son had a visitor. She came by at about
6pm and played and had dinner with us. We drove here home near 7:30pm and
waved good bye. I didn't have friends as a kid until I was almost 9 years
old. I'm glad my son has some now.
I grew up on an older block. Old Italian people with out many kids
anywhere. Looking back it was a little odd. I'm kinda jealous of my own
kids, they have friends, grandparents and parents that are home most of the
time. I'm glad for those blessings.
I think we are going to backyard camp this weekend if the weather holds
out. These last two weeks have been hard; the weather has gone mad with
heavy rains in the Midwest. Lake Denton (Wisconsin Dells!!!) is gone. The
lake broke its dam and drained away. It is nothing but a mud pit now. Thats
amazing in its self. I wonder how many people this will put out of work. No
more Tommy Bartlett water show.... No reason to go to robot world. Wow.....

common people

2048

This last weekend I spent time down state with family. I went to my
father-in-laws 80th birthday. He was my age now when I was born. He has
been in the Korean conflict and had seen many things in his life. Towns
grown and fall in economic booms and busts. I think in all I was amazed by
how much he had seen with his time here on planet Earth.
Can I make it another 40 years? I hope and pray that I can make it in
the same shape hes in right now. Can I make it to 2048? Its not somthing
that is beyond reach. The world is on shakey feet right now. What kind of
world am I talking about in the next 40 years?

Peace