Wednesday, July 28, 2010

country days


I went downstate for a long weekend to visit my in-laws. It really was great to see them. To watch them interact this the kids is really special.  They are reaching an age where things are diminishing for them. They are both 80+ years old and you can start to see the frailty creeping in on them. I'm just glad that my kids have gotten to spend time with them and to know them as people.  
     They live a more simple life than I do being out in the country. Every one waves as you pass by. Sure there are rednecks and goofs in general, but I still think there is potential out in the sticks..... I still believe that people out there are still good people.  I still think there is more respect for the older generation out there than here (near big cities).  I also think that the mind set is slightly more closed off ... think 1976-1986 -ish. , but there is so much influence on the media that the real world seeps in to country life as well. 
    Life moves on its own pace there. That is so lost now a days .....

Thursday, July 22, 2010

feeling old


I found out this week that a high school friend of mine has gall bladder cancer. Its the second one of my childhood friends that are dying. The longer you live the more you have a chance of losing. Life gives you great things , but eventually it will take them back. -- Im 42 and feeling old. I look in to the mirror and don't see myself any more.  Joints, hands, back and neck all hurt if they are not moving. If I blink a week will go buy with out notice. I know that I will see more and more friends pass on as I live. Its not a good thing but just a fact of life....  --- its faux depression settling in on me today. I just need a few days off ... I'll do that this weekend...

Monday, July 19, 2010

guy talk

Its been a few months since I've seen my guy friends. My wife used to think we would just get together and drink, but truth be told we just become guys. Not dads or brothers, sons and work mate we just become guys. We'll fart , joke , eat food we're not supposed to and drink pop. Watch violent kung fu movies and talk about comic books. We'll gab once or twice about the wife or kids as a courtesy , but its guy talk. Computer bits, BBC TV , vampire move and chicks.... Ours own group will split a 12 pack of beer over 5 hours, but its the shit talking that I love... I'll never know how and  what girls talk about when alone in their groups, but I love being a guy...

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Obama hates your grandmother...

I'm so tired of this bullshit. These people who bad mouth the President with zero respect for office. Brithers and tea baggers, rush drones, hannady zombies etc...  spewing out vile fear mongering, hateful closeted racist  content. Obama wants to kill your grand mother, obama is a socialist, Obama don't care about white people, he's not a citizen, he's not MY president etc. etc. .  Its such mega fear in the plain and simple fact that a black man is in charge and this people just can not deal with ..... I really hope that this picture starts fractions in teh tea party. 
Personally I hated GW Bush , but I still respected him as the President. I would not vote for him nor did I but I respected the office. These vile right wingers are children that have never been told no and now have to face facts that Mc Cain and Pallin lost ... done its over. Please grow up and vote the way you want in 2012, but just stop with your bullshit.   These tea baggers are teh same people who run and complain to a manager Expecting to get somthing free.... The Internet is a beautiful thing , but it has created a sub-culture of self importance... 

Saturday, June 26, 2010

The blind side and titties

I saw the blind side over the week end... I avoided watching this for so long because it seemed too chick flick to me - that and I knew there was not going to be any t and a in it at all.  Beyond this handicap I have to say that I enjoyed it.  -- Granted it was a "white mans burden" kind of movie, but well done none the less.  Did she deserve teh Oscar? I have to say - No .. The young girl in Precious did a much better job acting - real acting not just acting like a Southern Bitch .... So if you haven't seen it -- pop it in -- very little actual football.
Better AMERICAN football movies (I have to say that because of the world cup) - Friday night lights, any given sunday , the longest yard (original), The game plan (before they cut the road scene) , the water boy and Brians song  -- those are mine in no particular order...
-Peace

 

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Famous Kiss

Sweet goodbye my dear. I have always thought that this photo symbolized the end of WW2. The joy and elation felt by every American that day must have been overwhelming.


June 23, 2010

Edith Shain, Who Said Famous Kiss Came Her Way, Dies at 91

Edith Shain, who became something of a celebrity decades after World War II, asserting that she was the nurse kissed by a sailor in Life magazine's memorable photograph of V-J Day in Times Square, died Sunday at her home in Los Angeles. She was 91.

Her death was announced by her family.

On the 60th anniversary of Japan's surrender, in 2005, the Times Square Alliance welcomed Mrs. Shain to its commemoration of that frenzied August day in 1945, when strangers were hugging and kissing everywhere in the throngs that came to Times Square to celebrate the war's end.

Wearing sneakers and a nurse's uniform, Mrs. Shain re-enacted the moment captured by Life's renowned photographer Alfred Eisenstaedt. Many men have claimed to be the sailor who bestowed the kiss.

"The happiness was indescribable," Mrs. Shain said of the original V-J Day celebration. "It was a very long kiss."

Mrs. Shain was back in New York in 2008, that time as grand marshal for the city's Veterans Day Parade.

When Mr. Eisenstaedt took his photograph, he did not get the names of the embracing sailor and the nurse, and their faces were largely obscured. A Navy photographer, Lt. Victor Jorgensen, also photographed the pair, but he, too, did not obtain their identities.

Thirty-five years later, Mrs. Shain, who was teaching kindergarten in Los Angeles after having been a nurse at Doctors Hospital in New York during the war, wrote to Mr. Eisenstaedt, saying "now that I'm 60 it's fun to admit that I'm the nurse in your famous shot." (She was 27 when it was taken). She asked him for a print.

Mr. Eisenstaedt visited Mrs. Shain, and Life reproduced her letter to him in its August 1980 issue, along with pictures he took of her with her family and her students. Mrs. Shain said she had recognized herself in the photo but had kept silent over all those years. "I didn't think it was dignified, but times have changed," she told Life.

Two months later, Life published photos of 10 men who had come forward to say they were the sailor in that photo, and a picture of yet another man, no longer alive, whose family had put in a claim. It also ran pictures of two other women who said they were the nurse.

"We received claims from a few nurses and dozens of sailors but we could never prove that any of them were the actual people, and Eisenstaedt himself just said he didn't know," Bobbi Baker Burrows, an editor at Life, told The Associated Press in 2008.

Edith Shain was born in Tarrytown, N.Y., on July 29, 1918. She graduated from New York University and moved to Los Angeles a few years after the war ended.

She is survived by her sons Robert and Michael Shain and Justin Decker, six grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.

When Mrs. Shain arrived in New York in 2008 for the city's Veterans Day Parade, she spoke of what the V-J Day photo meant to her.

"It says so many things," she told The Associated Press. "Hope, love, peace and tomorrow."


Monday, June 21, 2010

Fathers Day #9

Fathers day was just a mess again.... The storms in the Chicagland area knocked power from my dads house for a few days. So he did not want to leave in case thay came on and etc... My sister is dating a guy and she ambushed me on Sat night if my newphew could spend the night .... My newphew is a little whiney and needy so I had a few words with him about bed time etc... My own kids wanted to play Wii with their cousin .....
      On the bright side - my kids took me out for a big ass Gyro and we went fishing. We didn't catch anything, but a bad day fishing beats a good day working . Somtimes just simple tings make me happy..... ... So to all you fathers out there keep up the good work and be a dad instead of just a baby daddy....

Thursday, June 17, 2010

inside me

I find it funny on how quick I can access hate.  Its lies just below the surface with me. I woke up this morning and found myself enraged to the point that I thought of biting my wife in the face. WTF? this is a thought that pops up in my brain?  I found my self just ready to hit her and bite her. All for some photos that she wanted to take down. 
   This is one of my greatest fears that I have, to lose self control. To become the hulk, mr hyde and just lose humanity. To lose compassion and just lash out at what angers me. Its the level of what I think about doing that frightens me. 
    I have alot of hate inside me from when I was a child. This I only delt with by fighting on a daily basis. This hate /rage  is quite alive inside. I have had dreams of me yelling at my father and being so mad that I have bitten my own fingers off......
    I need to get away and just not be with any one for a long time......