I've been speaking to a friend of mine who live out of state. He's getting
married to a girl who is very young. Shes 21 and he's 27. Both young and
new to the world. I hope he knows what he's getting in to. All the girls I
knew when I was 21 were no where ready to settle down. Sure they wanted the
fantasy; the ring, the dress and the house. Many of those girls whos
wedding I attended when there were 21 are now divorced. Some have new
husbands and some don't. Most regret being so young when they tied the
knot. Being thrust in to bills, house payment , responsible for another
person and multiple people in their lives.
Granted my friend is an old man at 27. I have he feeling that she will walk
over him. He has not had any sort of steady girlfriend in the 5 yrs I've
known him. I don't think he's ready for this. Most of the guys I work with
feel this way. He's fallen for the first girl that let him in to her bed.
Thats my 2 cents. With any luck they will do ok and I will be proven
wrong. He did burn bridges with us (his friends). He left the state and
didn't tell us , but now he wants us to go to his wedding. We still might
but we are throwing a bachlor party with out him. We'll probally send him
pictures..... Eyes covered by a black bar.....
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